Wissam Adib
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On Change

Empathy is not sympathy

Empathy is the ability to see things from someone else's perspective.

You can empathize without sympathizing: I understand your frustration, but I don't feel the same way.

You can empathize without being nice: You're feeling angry right now, but don't you dare take that anger out on me.

You can empathize without agreeing: You feel that you were treated unfairly, but let's take a look at things from another perspective.

People feel much more validated, and open for change, when you empathize.

Wissam Adib